What’s really happening when a seller ghosts you

Happy Wednesday!

Sometimes, you’ll have a great first conversation with a seller.

They seemed engaged, ask questions, and the timing feels right.

Then… nothing.

Getting ghosted by a seller is one of the most frustrating parts of this process, and it happens to almost everyone at some point.

Here’s how to think about it, and what to do first.

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Why sellers go quiet

Before you assume the worst, it helps to understand what’s usually happening on the other side.

Most sellers aren’t deliberately ignoring you.

They’re running a business full-time, often dealing with things that have nothing to do with the sale, and sometimes they’re simply not sure yet whether they actually want to sell.

Others are having parallel conversations with different buyers and haven’t made up their mind.

Some are waiting on advice from a spouse, a lawyer, or an accountant before responding.

In most cases, silence is just life getting in the way.

A simple follow-up approach that works

When a seller goes quiet, I recommend two follow-ups before moving on.

The first goes out five to seven days after your last message.

Keep it short and low-pressure, something that signals you’re still interested without making them feel chased.

The tone should be easy to respond to, not urgent.

If there’s still no response after another seven to ten days, send one more.

This time, give them an easy out.

Let them know you understand if the timing isn’t right, and that you’re happy to reconnect down the road.

That kind of message often gets a response precisely because it removes the pressure.

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The follow-up list

After two follow-ups with no reply, move them to a list you check every few months.

Circumstances change, and sellers who aren’t ready in January might be very ready by June.

Staying organized about these soft leads costs nothing and occasionally pays off in a big way.

Some of the best deals come from buyers who kept the door open long after everyone else moved on.

Tomorrow, I’ll share how to tell the difference between a seller who’s worth being patient with and one who’s quietly wasting your time…

Plus the most underrated tool you have in any negotiation.

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